Celebrate and
Grab the Positiveness from Your Pessimistic Life
It is cool to be
a pessimist. For your information, a Pessimist is
one who feels bad when he feels good for fear he will feel worse when he feels
better. Some of us are pessimistic type, some others are optimistic, but there
are also many of us are in between, for examples are callous type or
indifferent ones. Here, I do not
want to attack anybody, but if you are a
pessimist and you are not convenient to be yourself,
you may moan or try hard, strive to be not
pessimistic anymore. It is okay, but why don’t you just try to celebrate your
pessimistic life and grab the beneficial parts of being pessimistic, and that will be so cool. Really, there are a lot of the bright sides to be a
pessimist, so that you do not have to moan and complain anymore, because no one can decide to
be a pessimist or an optimist.
Indifferent people usually do not care or interested in somebody or something. The optimistic ones seems always readier in any way of their life, without having many preparations. But it is a little bit different for pessimistic people. Many pessimists seems more anxious rather than anyone else. They will feel bad and a little bit nervous when they are facing problems. They are used to have everything well-prepared. So when there is no preparation, they will feel very anxious. People also sometimes judge that pessimists think thoroughly, just because they think deeper about something than the optimistic one who is always readier in whatever way. Pessimists will think about the preparation or anticipation for problem they may face, how to manage every single detail of action they will take and also the result will be. Therefore, a pessimist will look like a perfectionist one, who wants everything in a very good set or order and demands the highest standards possible.
I understand
that those sounds bad and do not have certain dynamics. But, even though they
sometimes cannot feel what life should be just because of their anticipations
as I said above, pessimists can be more sensible or conscious of something will
happen in their lives. I do not say that they have extrasensory perceptions or
supernatural powers for predicting future experiences. It is more about their
premonitions, strong intuitions. They are not types of ready-men; so that, they
will predict something as the result they get from the actions they take and
also everything they may face in a process of occurrence. For example, they will probably build houses
near the fire station for anticipating that someday their houses will be caught
fire.
There is also a condition when they
will struggle in packing for a vacation. They put allergy medications,
first-aid kits, ropes, knives, credit cards, lamplighters, umbrellas, and all
together in their bags. Therefore, when there is an obstacle or even a problem,
they will be readier if they have had good preparations and anticipations. They
do not have to feel anxious.
Pessimists can
deal with any losing experience, because they have anticipated it before it
happens. They can place a bet on football game or join any competition or contest, but they also
have such
imaginations in their minds
that they can lose at anytime. Then, they make an adjustment to the feeling of
losing before it really happens; so that, when they are losing, they will be
fine. That will not affect or burden them so much. The optimists may cry,
scream or get angry, the indifferent ones will probably just
grin and forget about it, but
pessimists decide it as so much fun. If they win, it will be
more than excited. That is why they will be happier than anyone else, and they
also seldom suffer the awful
disappointment. They, the pessimists, can be more optimistic
than the optimistic ones, be indifferent than the indifferent
ones.
xoxo
--Created by: Anitableau
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